As I’ve been reading around the blogosphere and twitter recently I’ve seen an increase in discussions centering around the concept of disclosure.  It’s an issue I’ve thought about before but frankly haven’t really put to the test for myself because I’ve yet to truly encountered a situation that requires the disclosing of anything.  Now granted, I do the whole FTC thing where I tell you where I’m getting my books from but I don’t view that obligation as something that puts into question my integrity or honesty.  Whereas, the two scenarios I’ll lay out below tend to fan flames in the blogosphere and incite some strong opinions.

I’ll start by stating that the questions I’m asking here are posed out of curiosity.  I’m not here to dictate how people blog I’m just throwing my opinion out there.  You do what you do, I do what I do — it’s all about our own personal comfort zones.  Having said that, there seem to be two issues that tend to garner attention on a pretty regular basis.  So I’m going to touch on each lightly here and open up the floor to hear what you all think on it.

The first issue centers around personal relationships.  With the prevalence of social networking it’s dang near impossible not to form tighter relationships with authors and members of the publishing industry than ever before.  Many times these relationships are casual acquaintances, but in a great deal of instances there are true and genuine friendships formed.  So the question is, if you’ve forged a personal relationship with an author do you review their book?  If you do, should you disclose that relationship?

I look at it like this.  Does disclosure prove that I’m more trustworthy?  Or, does it bring my sincerity and honesty into question because I feel the need to put it out there?  As an example, my friend Lenore is someone I met through blogging long ago.  Many of you know she’s recently scored a fabulous book deal.  Does that mean that because we’re friends, I can’t give you an honest opinion about her book in a review on my blog?  Or is it that when I review it you’ll trust my opinion more because I’m speaking of a friend and telling you what I actually think?  Honestly, if you read my blog I feel like you know me, you know my style and you know what I like.  I like to think you know I’m being honest with you and that my relationship with an author wouldn’t influence my opinion.

I used to think that disclosure of such a relationship was a must.  That in order to be viewed by my readers as someone with integrity and who values honesty I need to put it all out there.  But really, the more I think on it the more I shift my opinion.  I can be a friend and I can be honest.  Hell, because I’m your friend I’m *obligated* to be honest. Anyway, are we as bloggers obliged to say “hey, I’m reviewing this book but I think you should know that I hang out and have appetizers and cocktails with this person too so enter at your own risk”?  Is it a cardinal sin to keep your personal relationships private and go about your bloggy business?

The second scenario I’m throwing out there is related to gettin’ paid!

Listen, I think it’s safe to assume we all want to make money.  Some want to do it through blogging.  I have no beef with that.  Heck, if I could make enough to live on doing it I would….in a heartbeat.  But just how that happens is where I get a bit squeamish.  Because, while I am all about getting paid I don’t know exactly where I fall on the business of disclosing it.  Well, I guess I do know.  I feel like if I’m getting paid to review on my blog I should tell people.  We all know that if a person is reviewing for a publication like Kirkus or Shelf Awareness’ new newsletter they’re taking in money and that’s awesome!  No disclosure necessary because the expectation is already there. But when I’m blogging on my own, if I’m taking in money from an author or publisher to write a review, to bump up a book on the TBR pile, or to host a giveaway I kinda think people should know that.  Frankly, why wouldn’t I want people to know?  Couldn’t it be said that it’s the keeping silent on the fact that makes it seem much more distasteful and deceptive?  Or does it fall into the category of “it’s just none of your business”?

Now, before people get their panties in a bunch I’m not saying that getting paid for reviews means a person is getting paid to write POSITIVE reviews. Or even that a person shouldn’t get paid.  Where I get all wondrous is in the particulars of it all.  Which situations may be a bit more grey than others?  Why?  And under what circumstances should payment be disclosed?

And therein lies the ultimate conundrum for me because I can see it being ok to go the non-disclosure route in one circumstance but then non-disclosure in the other feels like it’s a bit more squicky.  Why is it different?  Or is it?  Is it that I’m just all kinds of super manic and can’t wrap my head around the overall concept of these types of disclosure?  Or is it that money makes everything all that more cloudy and suspect in nature?  What do you all think, where do you fall?